More and more we’re seeing gals stepping out for extramarital affairs. And who are we to criticize a successful approach used by men for centuries. Having alibis ready to go are vital. But let’s try to avoid the need for alibis all together. With the right approach your man will never raise an eyebrow in question. Here’s five rules to keep you on the right track.
1. Stay Needy…
You used to need him to go shopping, exercise or cross the street alone. Now you’re organizing functions without him. This is a dead giveaway that you’re no longer needy (of him). Try and maintain that attachment to some extent. Women who enter into extra marital affairs tend to display higher levels of self confidence than their counterparts. You need to give your man time to adapt to the new and improved you.
2. Get Angry…
As much as he complains about your screaming over his blowing you off for a game, he needs it. Give the occasional jealous lover impression from time to time. Make him think that you’re all that matters in his world and he’ll keep his eyes on the Playstation.
3. Plan your secrecy…
You used to share your daily events. Now he’d have to hack your ipad to see your schedule. DO NOT try and make a fake schedule. This is a recipe for disaster that puts many male adulterers in the gutter. You need to set up a decoy. Have a secretive text conversation that he’ll catch wind of. Make sure it leads to your annual gynecologist exam. One woman led her suspicious husband right into an abused spouses meeting she had been attending. Her husband never questioned her again.
The irony was – the group meeting was a cover for five wives having affairs…
4. Don’t Turn The Tables…
You used to rattle on and on about your day. Now you’re not interested in talking. When he inquires you start grilling him on what he’s up to. This is a huge red flag. Start memorizing your favorite shows. Rattle off the plot when you’re chatting. Say your friend Amy is going through…. (latest episode). You’ll be boring him again in no time…
5. Don’t Overdo the Attention…
There’s no need to send cards every day. Don’t need to text I love you’s in between playtimes. Just as avoidance is toxic, excessive attention can spark the “what did i do to deserve this” effect.